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This blast from the past came in as a reminder of the power of connection in parenting. No fancy toys. No Pinteresty crafts. No "enriching activities" that require a PhD in toddler management. Just two people, a piece of paper, and some doodles (that may or may not resemble modern art). We often feel pressured to “do more” for our kids—buy the best toys, plan elaborate learning activities, or teach them three languages before preschool. But honestly? Our kids don’t care. They just want us. Fully present, fully engaged, maybe a little goofy. This masterpiece? It wasn’t about perfect lines or coloring inside them. It was about giggles, stolen glances, and the unspoken magic of "Look, Mama is here with me." So here’s your reminder: Parenting is less about doing and more about being. You don’t read with your one-year-old because you want them to become an orator. You don’t do random “artivities” because you expect them to be the next big thing in art. And yes, you’ll hear people say: "But they won’t even remember all this!" Maybe not. But here’s what they will remember—the feeling of connection. Every silly activity, every messy craft, every off-key song or kitchen jam session isn’t about the activity itself. It’s about creating an environment of joy, safety, and love. It’s about bonding in ways that feel natural to your family—whether that’s music, dance, books, or even banging on pots and pans like a rock band. They might not remember the activity, but they will absorb the presence. So go ahead—be silly with your child (or any child you meet along the way). If you want to, but don’t know how—or just feel like you don’t have enough hands to make it happen—DM me! Happy to help. 😊 In Frame: Us. This picture is special because: a) I am actually in it instead of behind the scenes. b) Both of us are in clean clothes. (A true parenting win!) #MindfulParenting #PresenceOverPerfection #ParentingWithHumor #ConnectionOverActivities