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“Staying calm in the face of provocation is not easy. It is not about coldness or indifference, but about stopping, observing and choosing carefully before acting. In a society that rewards speed, not reacting is often interpreted as weakness. From an early age we are taught that to remain silent is to give in, that not to respond is to lose. But not everything deserves a response. There are arguments that only fuel useless tensions. Many conflicts arise from the need to impose or vent frustrations, not from the desire to understand. Getting involved in that kind of dynamic does not lead to any real change. Choosing silence is not passivity. It is a way of preserving energy and prioritizing emotional well-being. Sometimes, not responding is an act of lucidity and respect for oneself. Immediate reaction, when born of fear of the judgment of others or the desire for approval, locks us into a logic that takes us away from what really matters. Much of our daily unease stems from an attachment to the transitory. We cling to conflicts that could be resolved if we knew how to distance ourselves. Taking a step back allows us to see clearly what is worthwhile and what is not. It is not a question of repressing emotions, but of expressing them consciously. Speaking or remaining silent at the right moment is part of a freedom that is built up over time. Those who manage to avoid automatic reaction begin to live from a more personal place, with greater clarity to decide where to get involved and where not to. This does not imply closing oneself off or distancing oneself from the world, but relating to conflicts in a different way. Sometimes, keeping quiet is wise; other times, speaking is assuming responsibility for what one feels. That distinction requires practice, sensitivity and constant attention to one's own well-being. Avoiding unnecessary confrontation does not mean fleeing from dialogue. It is about learning to focus our attention, which is a limited resource. How we use it defines the quality of our experience. If we waste it on the trivial, we wear ourselves out; if we take care of it, we grow. Not reacting to everything is a form of inner strength. It is feeling without getting lost, being present without letting yourself be carried away. You don't deny the difficulties of the world, you choose how to get through them. Serenity is not indifference, it is stable presence. Those who manage to maintain this calm achieve a peace that is not easily broken. It is not a privilege, but it is the result of constant work. This peace transforms the way of being in the world: with less noise, more clarity and a real sense of fulfilment.” Prabhuji