新媒网 · 跨境数据社区

I didn’t settle down. I rose up 👉🏼 with someone who could rise with me. I didn’t wait for perfect timing. I didn’t wait until I was less busy. I didn’t wait to be chosen. I got radically honest about who I was and what I was looking for in a partner. Most importantly: I made dating a priority, without letting it hijack my life. It took less than 4 hours a week to change everything. For my fellow #highperformers, here’s the truth: ✨You don’t have to slow down to find love. ✨You don’t have to settle for surface-level connection. ✨You don’t have to tone down who you are to find love. But you do have to date differently. You have to stop waiting for the perfect time. Love doesn’t show up when your schedule clears.👇🏼 It shows up when you decide it matters. Here’s how to start dating without sacrificing your goals: 1️⃣ (One-time) Define your core values + lifestyle non-negotiables. 👉🏼 This keeps you out of misaligned connections. Do it once, revisit when needed, and filter accordingly. 2️⃣ (Weekly: 1-2 hours) Try one new experience. 👉🏼 Say yes to a new group, class, or community. Expand your world so the right person can enter it. 3️⃣ (Weekly: 1-2 hours) Make time for a date. Even if you’re not sure. You don’t get clarity from thinking, you get it from doing. 4️⃣ (One-time: 15 mins) Prepare better questions before your next date. 👉🏼 Surface-level talk won’t reveal anything real. I made you a free guide that helps you identify alignment fast without making your date feel like they’re on a job interview. This is what it looks like to pursue love with intention.✨ To honor your ambition and your desire for connection. Want a list of date questions? Comment QUESTIONS and I’ll send it to you 💌