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STOP COMPARING YOUR CHILDREN TO OTHERS It is natural for parents to want the best for their children, but comparing your children to other people’s children or even comparing siblings can have a detrimental effect on them. Comparing your children to others can make them feel inadequate, insecure, and even resentful. It is important to remember that every child is unique and has different strengths and weaknesses, so it is important not to compare them to others. The Bible has a lot to say about comparison and emphasizes the importance of treating others with respect and avoiding comparison. Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” This verse encourages us to lift others and help them grow rather than compare them to others. Additionally, James 3:16 reminds us, “For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice.” This verse cautions us against comparing ourselves to others as it can lead to jealousy and selfishness. As a parent, it is important to focus on your children and their strengths and weaknesses. Celebrate their accomplishments and help them work on their weaknesses. It is also important to encourage them to be kind and respectful to others and not compare themselves to others. Let them know they are enough This year we must put an end to toxic parenting. First new year advice to all parents 😇😊