My twin sister Kacy (23F) is having an extravagant wedding at a fancy hotel. Although I'm happy for her, I find her plans tacky. She asked guests for an entrance fee and shared an expensive gift list on social media. Kacy even started a GoFundMe page for the honeymoon. Concerned, I called her and tried to be gentle, but she got defensive. Eventually, I told her she was being tacky and entitled. She blocked me, and our parents think I should have stayed quiet. AITJ?

My (17F) cousin Sara (15F) told us she was going to wear a long, white wedding dress to our cousin Nora’s (26F) wedding. We were shocked. When Nora found out, she was understandably upset but Sara refused to get a new dress. So, my family and I hatched a plan. We mocked Sara’s dress and made fun of her for wearing a wedding dress at someone else’s wedding within earshot. Sara cried and called us jerks. AITJ?