Valuable like
𝐈 𝐃𝐢𝐝𝐧’𝐭 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞 𝐈 𝐖𝐚𝐬 𝐃𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐔𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐥 𝐈 𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝𝐧’𝐭 𝐁𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞
I thought I was handling it all.
✔️ Smiling through the overwhelm.
✔️ Saying “yes” when I should’ve said “not this time.”
✔️ Pushing through exhaustion like it was a badge of honor.
But the truth?
I was running on emotional fumes—and it showed.
I snapped at the people I loved.
I felt disconnected from myself.
And worst of all? I kept pretending I was fine.
Emotional bandwidth is real. You can’t keep pouring into others while running on empty.
Lately, I’ve been practicing:
Saying “let me get back to you” instead of impulsively committing.
Giving myself permission to rest without guilt.
Protecting my peace like it’s my most valuable asset—because it is.
If you’ve been feeling emotionally drained, let this be your nudge:
Stop saying ‘yes’ out of guilt.
Start saying ‘no’ out of self-respect.
I know - I've been there, hanging on hoping nothing falls through the cracks and trying to do it all.
When was the last time you checked in with your emotional bandwidth?
No guilt, just a reality check-in with where you are at. We can't keep pretending we are fine and keep "doing it all".