Valuable clash
Dating Women in Their 30s: A Perspective for Men Who’ve Built Themselves
Fellas, let’s talk. Women in their 30s often come with a history—a youth spent either playing the field or stuck in relationships trying to mold someone into their ideal partner. Over time, this creates a certain level of experience that, unfortunately, leaves many burnt out or jaded.
Here’s where it gets tricky: some of these women develop a sense of entitlement, believing they deserve to be taken care of simply because of what they’ve been through—without having to put in any reciprocal work.
As men who’ve invested in ourselves—mentally, emotionally, and financially—this can make dating millennial women feel like a challenge, especially when their past choices have led to behaviors that clash with our vision for long-term value.
The solution? Vetting. It’s essential to dig into a woman’s past during the dating process—not to judge her, but to understand whether her experiences, behaviors, and mindset align with the standards you’ve built for your life.
In a world where your time and resources are valuable, never commit to anyone whose character and history don’t reflect your values. Protect your ROI—both emotionally and otherwise.
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